Day 88- to speak the words of what they want . That is always the solution.

When you focus with someone on a problem they are having , you are not helping them or you , you are both adding energy to the problem . you are also both attracting more "like" problem to you . Knowing this , it's very important for you and the other person to focus on what you both want . The person with problem should be encouraged to speak about what they want instead of the problem , which is what they dont want . The problem ,which is what they dont want . The problem which is what they dont want . The problem arose in the first place from the person thinking or talking about what they didnt want , so the chain reaction must stop . Help thouse close to you by encouraging them to speak the words of what they want . That is always the solution. Day 88- to speak the words of what they want . That is always the solution.